So you had a bad breakup with your girlfriend and you have probably read countless pieces of advice from so called relationship gurus.  But did they ever really work for you?  Perhaps but the thing is some of the teachings are misleading and can be downright false.  These are the shocking truths that every man in love ought to know in order to get back his girlfriend.

First, you have to know that there is no specific time-line when winning back your girl.  Some relationship gurus say that it only takes 2 days, a week, a month, 3 months and the list goes on.  But the problem with setting a time frame is that every relationship is unique and ever person involved in it is different.  Of course this would have an effect on how quickly you can get back together.

The second shocking truth is that wallowing in the pain, even if your ex is not aware of it, lessens your chances of getting back together with her.  Why?  Because when you depressed, chances are you would “glorify” your ex and totally forget about all the bad things.  You idealize her into a person that she is not

Third, another shocking truth is to never utter the words “I love you and I will always be there for you”.  Why?  Because that would turn you into her spare wheel, which she can conveniently use, when the wheel of her choice fails her.  That means that you are giving her the freedom to date other men and think that it is okay to postpone getting back together with you.  She can get to know the other guy first, compare him to you and then make a choice.  You deserve better than that so never fall for that trap.

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