If you are in a  good relationship with a girl you want likely  you want to do whatever you can to make sure she stays with you.  Sometimes it can be hard to know exactly what to do to make this happen.  Luckily for you this article will shed some light on this sometimes mysterious topic.

The first, and probably easiest thing for you to do to keep her interested is simply get out of the house more and have a life of yours that is separate from her, do things that don’t revolve one hundred percent around her.  Have you ever been in a relationship with a girl that after a while just has gone stale?  Usually the girl will start becoming very critical of you for no apparent reason, or start getting annoyed by things she didn’t used to be annoyed by, and overall things just start getting a little sour.  This is almost always because the two of you are suffocating each other.  It is basic human nature that if you have something great going you want to spend all your time on it, however in relationships it is important to stay away from this, because while you will be getting a large quantity of time together the quality will not be very high.  Even if the girl is the one who initiates the time spent together most of the time, you should step up to the plate if you have other things going on and go do those things away from her for a while, then when you do spend time together it will mean a lot more.

The main thing to remember is not to give things that you used to love to do before the two of you were together just for the sake of the relationship.  Also try not to give in to the thought that you should invite her along to do these things if it really won’t be very fun for her.  The same goes for her, if she invites you along to do something you really don’t enjoy doing be straight up with her and tell her you’d rather not, if you are brought on a date you don’t want to go on chances are you will be bad company.  Take time for yourself in a relationship and you will come back with more passion and things to talk about than ever before.

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