For whatever reason, you and your girlfriend split up. Whether it was on your terms or hers, you are ready to give it another “go.” The problem is that she is not convinced that getting back together with you is in her best interest. There are several basic ways to go about getting her back. Not everyone responds to the same type of attention, but what it all boils down to is you conveying to her how much you care. Whether you have been together decades or have only been dating for a few weeks, it’s your job to think about what type of person she is, and decide which way will be the most successful.

Some women’s attention can be won by way of material objects. Simply having flowers delivered to her workplace or dorm might work. Women love flowers; Not only because they’re pretty, but because the gesture shows not just her, but the other people around her how much you care. Why would that be important, you ask? Think about who she immediately runs to when her romantic relationships are on the rocks. She will turn to her friends, coworkers, acquaintances, classmates and family. These people are her support system. Their opinions matter, and just may ultimately decide your relationship fate without either of you realizing it.

Another option and possibly the most important are your actions. That old saying “Actions speak louder than words” rings perfectly true in this situation. Immediately start showing her how much you care. This is done by being there for her when she really needs you. No amount of money or gifts can be a substitute for real love and support. Think back to what went wrong in the relationship and try your hardest to prevent it from happening again. This can be achieved by compromising and understanding your girlfriend’s quirks, her habits and tendencies. Sit down and have a discussion with her about your concerns, let her know that your love for her is strong. Show her that you accept her strengths along with her weaknesses, and you hope that she will do the same for you. If your relationship is built on a foundation of true love and acceptance, it will be sure to stand the test of time.

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