In this article we are going to be talking about how you can become more than friends.  Now the first thing you have to know is that you are not the only one who is attracted to their best friend.  Statistics show today that 30% of marriages begin with the pair first being close friends often for more than a year before they started dating.

Next you should remember that your friendship won’t be over for good if you say something about your feelings.  If you are really that close of friends a sincere, honest way of saying I care about you, or I want this to move forward, can’t hurt things, especially if you are honest and say you do not want to lose your friendship.  There are a few guidelines you should follow when  wanting to be more than friends.

The first is that you shouldn’t pounce when they are vulnerable, this means you can’t talk to her about being more than friends right after he or she goes through a serious breakup, you can’t do it if she is having a really bad day, or is crying, it’s always best to say something when the girl is feeling her most confident.

Also it’s important to say something with sincerity before moving in for a kiss.

Last but not least the final rule is never ever say anything or do anything while intoxicated, it is never a good thing, if you are drunk you won’t say the right thing, and you might ruin a friendship.

If you do these things not only will you have the best chance to make your friendship into a relationship, but you will do so in a way that can preserve your friendship if at all possible.  Just remember these guidelines, and above all be sincere with everything you say.

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