Relationship Control: How to Deal with Jealousy in a Relationship
Do you have a problem with relationship control? If there is one thing that can make a relationship tough and difficult to deal with, it is called jealousy. In fact, jealousy can be so difficult to handle that it can eventually destroy a relationship. So before you get fits of rage because of jealousy, there is one thing that you should ask yourself – where is your jealousy coming from? Is it a valid feeling or is it just you reacting to your insecurity? Do not just assume that your jealousy is the fault of your partner. If the problem is from your end then acknowledge it and do something about it. If you are insecure because of some things that happened to you in the past then you must find ways to overcome it and . Otherwise, it would surely negatively affect your relationship.
Whether your feelings of jealousy are valid or not, it makes sense to talk to your partner about it. He or she should be willing enough to help you through it. If the feeling is due to his or her over friendliness, then the other should be willing to not be so touchy with friends of the opposite sex. If it is because of your past, then he or she should help you determine what causes the jealousy and how to get rid of it for good.
Sometimes, you are jealous because there is a valid reason for it. If your partner flirts with others and you do not like it, then you better tell him or her about it. If your partner really cares for you, he or she should be willing to stop flirting. If the other refuses, then perhaps it is time for you to rethink being in that relationship. After all, one of you seems to really lack commitment.
You should be careful when dealing with jealousy and how you get rid of it. If you don’t get rid of your jealousy it might lead to relationship control. Why is this because you might want to start controlling your women or men by telling them what too do this is the reason why you should follow the advice that is being given to you by the video. if you have any comments or ideas then leave them below and I’m sure we can have a talk about your thoughts.
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I have been dealing with controlling jealous boyfriends all my life, at one point I realized I have become like them. Sometimes being jealous is justified but it is hard to realize when I am being reasonable and when I am not, can anyone give any advice on how to differentiate real feelings from just irrational thoughts? I know my question sounds silly but I cannot longer tell them apart…
I used to be extremely jealous when I was in relationships, it got to a point where I just wanted to control every aspect of my girlfriends lives, it was pretty bad, I can recognize it now but it was not easy, I went to therapy to control my irrational jealous feelings and to keep my anger in check, I think we fell in the trap of thinking people belong to us like they are our property and that is awful. I just wanted to share my experience even though talking about it is hard.
I think it is very brave of you to admit that, I would like to know how did you get the jealous feelings under control. My boyfriend used to flirt a lot and he stopped when I asked him and explain how it made me feel, but now, I am like paranoid thinking he flirts when I am not with him… what do you recommend??